Half a croissant, on a plate, with a sign in front of it saying '50c'
h a l f b a k e r y
Assume a hemispherical cow.

idea: add, search, annotate, link, view, overview, recent, by name, best, random

meta: news, help, about, links, report a problem

account: browse anonymously, or get an account and write.

user:
pass:
register,


                   

Please log in.
Before you can vote, you need to register. Please log in or create an account.

Relationship references

Background checks for potential mates
 
(+2, -2)
  [vote for,
against]

Don't you wish you'd known this before you went out with (fill in the blank)?

When a current becomes a former, both parties fill out the form. Perhaps a mandatory cooling-off period......

Potential mates could, for a fee, access your references and consider your history, as presented by those who should know. As well would the volume of references, or lack thereof, speak.......well, volumes.

normzone, Dec 30 2003

Halfbakery: E-Lay E-Lay
Not quite what you describe, but some of the links veer there. [jutta, Aug 02 2008]

[link]






       we did this before but until the former turns up +1   

       my mother spoke well of me :)
po, Dec 30 2003
  

       It seemed like something who's time would have already come...I searched in vain...thanks for the vote, I'll delete if it is demonstrated redunredundant.   

       Re-done dant?   

       I'm shuddering picturing my own scores on this service...
normzone, Dec 30 2003
  

       the word is redundant. you will not hear it from these lips!   

       hey Norm is OK - big hearted bloke if you know what I mean :)
po, Dec 30 2003
  

       This could possibly be added to the Protection of Privacy issue. I personally wouldn't want background info done on me. Although that being said, this would have been a great service if I had used it on my ex..
v0rtexx, Dec 30 2003
  

       [po] thanks, I was unable to think of a tactful way to mention that....[renfield] I see where you're going with this, and it might even be amusing if the database was all based on reports from " ex-friends, ex-lovers and enemies " (Joe Jackson, "On Your Radio")
normzone, Dec 30 2003
  

       Hey, you could add fingerprint checks, 25 last known residences, HIV test (current within last 2 days), DNA profiling for defective genes (got to rule out mental illness or birth defects), 10 verifiable references (not family), all employers from last 15 years, school transcripts going back to kindergarten, mother's maiden name and a list of every living family member including address and phone number (all deceased relatives going back 3 generations would have cause of death listed).   

       Or you could date, listen to your heart and learn about the person, as a friend. "Potential mates" puts too much pressure on early in the relationship.
Klaatu, Dec 31 2003
  

       "Previous cellmates include ..."
Letsbuildafort, Dec 31 2003
  

       But the only reason I have an ex is that I found out she was a liar. Ah... can't be that bad a report. She keeps finding me again every seven years. or so. All the same, I do not want a crazy liar who is still infatuated with me to write up reports any future partner might read.
ye_river_xiv, Aug 02 2008
  
      
[annotate]
  


 

back: main index

business  computer  culture  fashion  food  halfbakery  home  other  product  public  science  sport  vehicle